Visual Supports

If your child struggles with
communication, make some visual
supports such as photographs of
everyday things.. Use the visual
support while also naming the
object or task. Think about how
you give your child instructions
and consider if this could be
clearer, e.g. break down into
a step by step plan

Alternative Ideas

If your child struggles with the
concept of time try using a sand
timer to help your child.. Your child
will understand much better if you
say “Two more goes before we put
your toys away” rather than “Five
minutes until we tidy up”

Play

helps to develop skills such as sharing,
patience and increase attention span.
It is also a great way to strengthen
your relationship with your child
while having fun. Encourage your child
to lead the play activity using their
imagination

Learn

the art of keeping calm. Reacting
to your child with a calm assertive
approach will work best when things
don’t go so well. Speaking to other
parents can reduce feelings of
isolation and increase your knowledge
of Autism which may help you help
your child.

Focus

on what your child can do rather than
what they can’t. Use lots of praise and
encouragement when they accomplish
a new task or behave well. All children
are unique and you as their parent
have the greatest knowledge of your
child. Keeping a notebook on what
behaviours you notice can help with
the assessment

Practice self-care

Parents need to look after their own
mental and physical health so they
can parent effectively and advocate
for their child. Talking through your
concerns and frustrations can help
reduce your worry & anxiety. Seek
support either from other parents,
a support group or from organisations
such as Parenting NI.