Assign Responsibility

Regardless of the age of your
child, they need to develop skills
for independence. Encourage your
child to take responsibilities when
they are able to do so, such as
putting toys away, helping getting
dinner ready or washing up.

Provide opportunities

It can be tempting to say
“let me do it” or “I’ll show you”,
but by giving children the
opportunity to practice
independence your child
will be learning new skills and
be less likely to rely on you to do
things for them as they get older.

Offer choices

Allowing your child to make
decisions such as what story
they would like to read at
bedtime or a choice of which
t-shirt they would like to wear
helps support growing
independence.

Get children involved

Get your child involved in tasks
such as the weekly shop, this will
help them to understand the value
of money. As your child gets older
gradually give them the responsibility
of paying for little things they would
like out of their pocket money.

Self-Care

Show enthusiasm when your
child tries to help, even if
it means it takes longer.
Recognise any tasks they
complete and praise their
ability in doing so as it shows
you have faith in their capability.

Teach life lessons

As children get older, use ordinary
household events such as paying
bills to make children aware of adult
responsibilities. To further develop
their own money, encourage them
to open a bank or building society
account.